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20 Lessons I’ve Learned By 25

| October 15, 2013 | 30 Comments


Life can hit you hard sometimes you have to pick yourself up, dust yourself off, use the hard lessons learned and move on.  Over the years I’ve had my own share of struggles, challenges, disappointments and failures and while I could’ve easily given in or given up I didn’t and it’s because of these lessons that I’ve been able to attain so much success in such a short period of time.

Today I want to share with you 20 lessons I’ve learned as I look back over the last 25 years of my life.  I’m sure many of you can relate, and resonate with some or many of these.  When times get tough come back to this list and remember temporary pain creates long term pleasure.

1. Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you.

2. If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.

3. One of the greatest challenges in life is being yourself in a world that’s trying to make you like everyone else.

4. Someone will always be prettier, someone will always be smarter, someone will always be younger but they will never be you.

5. You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading your last one.

6. Worry will not strip tomorrow of its burdens, it will strip today of its joy.

7. Don’t live your life with hate in your heart. You will end up hurting yourself more than the people you hate.

8. Refuse to lower your standards to accommodate those who refuse to raise theirs.

9. The real world doesn’t reward perfectionists; it rewards people who get things done.

10. The extent to which you can achieve your dreams depends on the extent to which you take responsibility for your life.

11. Jealousy is the art of counting someone else’s blessings instead of your own.

12. Don’t worry about what others are doing better than you. Concentrate on beating your own records everyday. Success is a battle between you and yourself ONLY!

13. You can’t change what you refuse to confront.

14. You can’t make it to 2nd base with your foot on 1st.

15. It’s better to be alone then in bad company.

16. Fall in love when you’re ready not when you’re lonely.

17. There is a purpose for everyone you meet. Some will test you, some will use you and some will teach you. But, most importantly, some will bring out the best in you.

18. You have to create stability in your own life first before you can share it with someone else

19. You are not your mistakes, you are not your struggles and you are here NOW with the power to shape your day and your future.

20. You end up regretting the things you did NOT do far more than the things you did.

As you finish reading this list remember there will be challenges, stepping stones, stumbling blocks, and failures in life.  When you overcome an obstacle, find a solution and don’t give up because you will grow from it.  I challenge you to look back on your own life and share with me some of the lessons you’ve learned over the years.

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About the Author: Melissa Krivachek

Melissa Krivachek is the President of Briella Arion, Inc. As the International Best-Selling Author of BOLD! Helping You Unleash The Hero Within, Be A Baller! The Blueprint To Have It All, and, Be Ballsy! How Not To Suck At Love, Success, and Happiness. she loves teaching entrepreneurs across the globe how they can have it all —, all at the same time. Love, Success, & Happiness. Chosen as Evolution Magazine’s “Power Player Under 40” honored by the National Council of American Executives as the Top 1% of US Executives in 2014 and featured on CNN, Forbes, ABC, NBC, CBS, CW, and FOX, in addition to receiving dozens of other accolades, Melissa’s passion for growth resonates with entrepreneurs looking to break-through the ceiling of complexity to build sustainable million dollar + businesses.

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  • John Abraham

    Thank you for your insights – though their philosophical power might benefit from http://reference-tree.com/book/words-a-user-s-guide (helps you break through to sophisticated expression).

  • Liz Flores

    A powerful motivator is love not fear.
    Take your ideas seriously
    Doing nothing is better than being busy doing nothing
    Those who look out dream, those who look in awaken

  • http://www.skyemediagroup.com/ Skye Media Group

    Great advice!

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  • Susana

    Love this!!! Going to Follow it :)

  • Melissa Krivachek

    Thanks Susana! What was your favorite piece of advice? And is there anything you’ve learned in your life you want to share with the other readers? Cheers! ~Melissa

  • Melissa Krivachek

    Thanks! :) Glad you enjoyed.

  • Melissa Krivachek

    Liz thanks for jumping in and adding to the conversation. Great pieces of advice as well love and fear never go together but separately they are incredibly powerful. Love the last one so deep and profound! :)

  • http://www.skyemediagroup.com/ Toni

    You’ve literally taken every thought I’ve had about myself within the past few months and flipped and reversed them until positive energy. Thanks.

  • Liz Flores

    Glad you enjoyed them! I really loved reading your advice! Some just hit the nail right on the head for me :)

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  • Sanjay Rakecha

    Nicely presented. Useful thoughts.

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  • Melissa Krivachek

    Thanks Sanjay! Glad you enjoyed the article. Looking forward to connecting with you further.

  • Melissa Krivachek

    Awesome Toni! Glad that these resonated with you :)

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  • Kevin Diamond

    Beautiful Melissa!

  • oscar

    not what I wanted to hear, but… I know its what I needed to hear :) I kept getting paralyzed by the results of my actions, like I want to be a rock star or an actor, and now I found that what I really needed was to do something useful for those around me,

    Think gloablly, act loaclly right? I still play guitar and write songs though, but hopefully with time I will be able to marry my own self discipline and stop living in ideas and agendas from this idolized world we live in, peace and love your really an inspiration

  • http://www.callboxinc.com/ Belinda Summers

    Great list! I hope many people in their 20s get to see this, it’s great motivation.

    One thing I want to add is, “Bad decisions make good stories”. Making mistakes is part of the growing up process and the best reward is to able live on to tell the tale of what you’ve been through.

    Thank you for sharing, Melissa!

  • Dan Calin

    I recently turned 25 and I agree with each and every lesson.

    One thing I would add is: you get more done with movement than with meditation, and getting started is everything. Momentum builds empires.

  • James

    This list is extremely motivating, thank you for sharing. I’d say number 13 is particularly pertinent to living life to the full. I’d be interested to get your opinion on worry and pressure, namely how you deal with it. http://greatpreneurs.com/relieve-pressure/ Here is a link to a piece I wrote on pressure for an Enterprise website. In your experience, how have you dealt with pressure over the years?

  • http://www.transpiral.org/ Yasmine Khater

    totally love this!!

  • James

    “Momentum builds empires” – Love it!

  • Alwaleed

    Thanks melissa for a great article ! for number 16 falling in love when you are ready and not when you are lonely . what`s the difference ?

  • allyson

    “Momentum builds empires” – Love it!

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  • Deepak M

    Great lessons Melissa, keep logging your learning – one of the best habit

    I would like to add “Never every giveup, keep doing what you enjoy.”

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